Of all the conflicts the world has seen none is greater than that between a woman and a man. The relentless pursuit of love and happiness takes us all through the battlefields of desire and jealousy and broken hearts lay scattered as the laughing lovers walk over them. We have read the books and seen the films but we still enter the human war zone blinded by our beliefs. In our search for love and happiness we are prepared to do whatever we must and at whatever cost to find our soul mate. We are the contraceptive commandos carrying roses and chocolates and the occasional gold ring in marriages grenade.